Archive: Nov 2013

  1. To Baxter’s Pep Squad: Baxter’s Many Gifts

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    Last Spring our foster-turned forever dog Baxter successfully underwent his heartworm treatment. By summer, however he developed a serious skin condition; he was so itchy that he scratched his belly raw. Not wanting to put him on medications I kept changing his diet and that meant frequent trips to the pet store called Phydeaux, located in Chapel Hill.
    One day I was driving into their parking lot a few minutes before closing time, when I noticed another Nissan Leaf. There was plenty of parking space, but I was determined to squeeze my Bluebell between the other Leaf and the bushes framing the edge of the parking lot. Never miss out on the rare opportunity of having two Leaf’s parking side by side!

    I stepped out of my car still beaming from the delight of discovering yet another electric car. I looked up and noticed a gentleman and a child standing on the sidewalk.
    “Yes, we love our car, too,” smiled the gentleman at me.
    “Oh, it’s your car!” I exclaimed surprised.
    “I so much would like to have a chat with you, but the store is closing in a few minutes,” I added as I backed into the entrance of Phydeaux.
    When I left the store, the man was just walking the girl toward the car. We started to talk, sharing our Leaf experiences. After he strapped his daughter into the car seat and sat in his car we kept talking through his rolled-down window. At some point he gave me his business card and mentioned that he is the president of the Triangle Vegetarian Society. I could not believe my ears. I told him that we are vegetarians, too. He said it was too bad we did not meet earlier that day. He and his daughter just left the restaurant next door, after trying out their new vegetarian menu for free. But he said that I should look into attending the Society’s vegan Thanksgiving Feast, the biggest one in the US, held in Downtown Durham on Thanksgiving Day.
    Out of the blue, something made me ask if he knew Dr. Gil, my doctor of Eastern Medicine.
    “Oh, Dr. Gil, he is our friend,” answered the gentleman, with a broad smile spreading on his face.
    “Oh, holy…no way that you know him!” I exclaimed, the apologized profusely for by outburst.
    “I first met him at the American Dance Festival performance,” he started to explain, “Dr. Gil seemed to be lost, and I helped him out. Since then he has become our friend, and has also treated some family members.”
    “Well, I don’t have a business card to give you, but I have a copy of my memoir, and I wrote about my experience with Dr. Gil,” I offered a copy of my book, which he graciously accepted.
    “Hope to see you at Thanksgiving!” he said and glided away silently in his white Leaf.

    It turned out Baxter was allergic to pollen, and wiping him off with a damp rag each time he visited the outdoors helped greatly. And after the cool weather settled over North Carolina, his skin healed completely.

    Baxter has brought so many wonderful people, all these great new opportunities and so much love into our lives! When we adopted him, I thought we were only getting a four-legged companion for the girls. I should have known better, the ones before Baxter also brought much joy and surprises, including the greatest of all: the gift of writing.

  2. The Measure of Success

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    “Saving Grace” worked wonders on my throat, I got through my lecture without needing to take any break other than for a few sips of water.
    As a guest lecturer, my talk was part of NC State’s Green Chemistry and Engineering course. I was very excited to share our experience in Green Chemistry, however around halfway through I noticed some students in the back of the room talking to one another, and another student in the middle row struggling, mostly unsuccessfully, to stay awake. The professor’s stream of questions still kept me going: I had at least one person interested in my company’s effort to make Medicinal Chemistry more sustainable.

    When I was done, the professor thanked me, then invited the students to ask questions. One hand shut up and I anticipated a challenging inquiry. The student with the raised hand stopped chewing her gum for a moment and yelled out her question.
    “Homework?”
    “No, there is no homework,” replied the professor with a hint of disappointment in his voice.

    The students packed up and started streaming out of the classroom. One guy, who had been sitting in the first row to my left and mostly out of my vision during my talk, stood up and stepped forward.
    “I wanted to thank you for coming and talking to us about your work,” he started, “I always had this opinion of ‘Evil Pharma’, but today you helped me change my mind.”
    I have a friend in Hungary,” I answered, “her name is Andrea. She was diagnosed with leukemia 10 years ago. She is still alive because of a drug she takes every day. It is called Gleevec, made by Novartis. My father had leukemia over 30 years ago. All they could do for him was blood transfusions and painkillers.”
    “We are really trying to do good, help people, save lives,” I added.
    The student looked me in the eye, quietly nodded once, then slowly stepped away.

  3. Saving Grace

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    Since the middle of September I had this nagging cough. I was constantly hacking to keep my throat clear, alternating with deep coughs to liberate my heavy lungs. Week after week, I just could not shake the constant irritation. Finally on October 7, the day before my scheduled lecture I had enough. I drove to Whole Foods to get some herbal mixture that would allow me to speak uninterrupted for an hour.
    I was relieved to find a store clerk in the herbal isle. After pointing out various products on a shelf, she paused for a moment, turned around and motioned toward the bottom shelf on the other side of the isle.
    “That spray down there, a very popular item,” she said.
    I bent down to pick up one of the glass bottles. On the label it read:

    Singer’s
    Saving Grace

    Honey
    Lemon
    Soothing throat spray

    “Saving Grace?” I read it out loud in amazement.
    “Yes, that’s the one,” she replied.
    “Oh, that’s too funny!” I exclaimed. “My name means Grace.”
    “This is it!” I declared and marched away holding the bottle high up in the air.